Love you B'coz

• I love you because you make me happy.
• I love you because you make me feel safe and secure.
• I love your smile.
• I love the way you say my name.
• I love the look in your eyes when you tell me you love me. And how you laugh at me when I do something stupid, when others would put me down.
• I love the fact that when I'm around you I can be myself and not worry about what you may think of me, because I know you love me for who I am. No matter what my faults may be.
• I love being able to wake up with you by my side... It makes my days better At night I love watching you sleep, hearing you take each breath, andfeeling your heart beat with the palm of my hand.. reality hits that you are not a dream YOU ARE MINE.
• I love the way you wrap your arms around me and hold me really tight, like there is no tomorrow And I love the way I feel when your lips barely touch mine for a kiss, the love and emotions that go through me at that moment are unexplainable.
• I love your laugh.
• I love hearing your voice.
• I love that you get along with my family and friend, no matter how much you dislike them, or who they are.

And hearing you tell me your stories, you could tell them to me a thousand times, and I will never get tired of them, because they are a part of you.But the main reason I love you is because. You are you! and all above reasons are just justification of my indefinable love for you which is beyond the reaons!

Know, if its True Love

Wondering if you've just met the perfect match? Here are some guidelines to help you decide if it's true love.
After several dates, you feel you've found the perfect person. This is your dream mate, the one who will stand by you through thick and thin. You're ready to tie the knot at last.
But is it love? Or is it a cheap imitation, like infatuation, lust, or even simple companionship? Here are a few things to consider as you make the ultimate life-changing decision:

1. Do you enjoy looking at the person or talking to the person more? Both are important to a mature relationship, but if you find yourself fixated on physical appearance, attracted to your mate because of face, figure, or form, you may be taking a superficial look at your loved one. On the other hand, you don't want to be taken in by flattery or false statements. If your significant other is all talk and no action, that can be a warning sign to drop the relationship before you end up with one broken promise after another. A balance of physical and mental attraction is a healthy signal.
2. Are you willing to wait to make the relationship work? For example, if your mate pushes you to do things you don't feel comfortable with, can you firmly say no? Will your response be handled respectfully and with patience? It goes both ways, too. Are you willing to wait on your partner to get more serious when he or she is ready, or are you demanding more interaction now? Can you wait to marry until the other person finishes school or are you pushing to live together first? Patience is an important virtue associated with successful, long-term relationships.
3. Do you support each other by anticipating and meeting needs? For example, if you need to work extra right now to pay off debt before getting married, does your mate understand that the situation is temporary and willingly wait for you to put in the extra hours at your job, rather than complain about your absence? If the person has a list of errands to run before the two of you can get together, do you offer to help?
4. Are you friends? Companionship lasts much longer than ardor, generally speaking. People in their 70's, 80's, and 90's may lose some of their physical spontaneity, but they maintain a quest for fun and a shared life until the end. Do you laugh together? Enjoy similar activities? Share each other with friends and family? Or do you expect your perfect mate to spend all free time with you exclusively?
5. Do you want what's best for this person, or do you want what this person can do to help you? For example, if your mate has the chance to get a wonderful job in another city, are you willing to pull up stakes and move, or will you expect the job opportunity to get tossed aside for you? Love means putting the other person's needs ahead of your own, even when that involves sacrifice. While blind agreement to any difference of opinion is unrealistic and unreasonable, a thoughtful discussion of what is better for each of you individually as well as both of you as a couple needs to take place.

Loving another person involves self-sacrifice and compromise. If you are attracted to someone for whom you are unwilling to be patient and to share all parts of your life, you may have a lot of work to do or disappointment to deal with after the wedding. Take time now to assess your relationship with these and other factors to see if you can make a life that could last fifty years or more with the person of your dreams. Because when you wake up, your mate will still be there.

10 Surprises for your Love

Here are ten romantic surprises to give the lady in your life. She is sure to treasure these meaningful gifts.

Whether your budget is small or even practically non-existent, you can give the special lady in your life romantic and meaningful gifts that she will always treasure and remember. Some will cost very little, and some are completely free. Here are ten gifts that most women will always enjoy receiving.

The first thing that is important to remember is that it doesn't need to be Valentine's Day or her birthday to give a gift and let her know that you care. Any day of the year can be turned into a day to give a loving gift.

1. One gift that will not have a price tag attached, but will be highly appreciated is the gift of time. Give her an entire day of your time and ask what she would like to do with that time. It may be hiking or going to the beach, but you may find out that the way she would best enjoy spending that gift of time is to just spend the day together at home getting to know you better.
2. When planning that surprise for her, do not overlook the old "romantic standbys" of candy and flowers, but instead of waiting for an anniversary or birthday, just do it because you think she's special (and tell her that!) If the budget will not allow roses, any florist will have other kinds of arrangements that will cost much less, so you may want to look into other options instead of the more traditional "dozen roses."
3. Is she fun-loving? If your lady enjoys games and laughs, try setting up a treasure hunt for her. Give her the first clue that you have written on a slip of paper, and have her follow the clues you creatively give to get to the next clue, until she eventually finds her gift. Don't have the clues going on for too very long, however, because even the most fun kinds of games can get tiring if they drag on for too long.
4. If children are involved in your relationship, one of the nicest gifts to give her is some private time while you take over watching the kids. This one may not sound like a romantic gift at first, but you can make sure to plan it so that it turns out that way. For instance, what if her private time involves an hour of soaking in a bubble bath that you have drawn for her at just the right temperature? Add a few scented candles to the room. Add a boom box (battery operated, please, because of the hazard risk of electricity and water) playing her favorite, or perhaps a brand new CD, or a new book of poetry if she enjoys reading. You might even choose to go as far as sprinkling some rose petals into the water. It goes without saying to make sure the children use the bathroom (if there is only one) before her bubble soak starts so that she will not be disturbed.
5. Many men, unfortunately, will refuse to do something that a lot of women think is very romantic, and that is writing a love poem for her. It doesn't need to be William Shakespeare and it doesn't even need to rhyme for it to be something that she will always treasure. Just write down thoughts from your heart concerning how you feel about her and try to fit them into poetry form and you have a priceless gift for her. Use nice stationary and present the poem or written thoughts to her with a little teddy bear holding the paper.
6. Another idea for a day of pampering is to plan for her to spend some time at a spa or beauty salon where she may not generally feel comfortable about spending the money to visit. Make sure she gets as much of "the works" as you can afford, including things like a manicure if she would enjoy it.
7. Choose a Saturday or Sunday and spoil your lady for the day. Arrange so that she will not need to worry about chores like cooking or cleaning. If the budget allows, call out for food or have a maid service come in for just this one time. If food delivery or a maid service for the day is too extravagant for the wallet, consider cooking a meal for her yourself or even dusting and running the vacuum. If this surprise is one you choose, don't forget to add the dish washing to the gift!
8. Tell her how you feel about her. That means true feelings. If she has made a huge difference in your life in some particular way, tell her that. If she is the first thought on your mind in the morning and the last thought before you drift off to sleep at night, she would absolutely love to hear that. It is important to say those three little words of "I love you" often, but sometimes it's nice to explain some of the reasons why you love her.
9. Rent a few movies that you know she would like and don't forget the popcorn and soda for your "theater evening." The thing that would make this a true gift for her is to let her choose the movies. Take the time to watch them with her, even if you would normally consider them "chick flicks." Let her get emotional and share that with you.
10. Last but certainly not least, and if the budget allows, arrange a weekend getaway for the two of you. Make all the plans, secure the reservations, and be sure to keep the destination a secret. Whether it's a short plane flight to your location, or a short or longer drive, she will find out the mystery destination when you arrive. Be practical, however, in letting her know if she will need any particular items of clothing for possible weather changes so that she will be able to pack properly. Even a trip to the mountains in the summertime might be a reason to tell her to throw a sweater in her suitcase. Know ahead of time which restaurants are in the area and choose your dining spots. She will have nothing to do except to enjoy the mystery weekend.

Remember that often the best gifts that mean the most are those that do not involve superficial things, or the spending of any money at all. Try to think of some meaningful "time" gifts to give her and your surprise will most likely be a huge hit.